Date: 08-15-12 17:40
I met her again and she is putting all the blame on to me, when she told her mother she want to marry me her mother start speaking about dowry for me to pay the family money and as the girl donít want to have a price on her head to be sold like a chunk of meat, she got angry with her mother and then her mother start speaking to her about her past boyfriends, the same things have happen so now she quit her job and move out of her home and she is saying itís all my fault and that I made her do it all, and she cannot ever face her mother or her, sisters again, she put it all on to me, but i never did anything i did not even say to marry so fast i told her we could know each other 6 months or a year before marry, but she is in a hurry I donít know why, she is saying I betray her, but i never want out with other girls never look at other girls and kept in touch with her in all this time but she still admit that i have betray her in all this in every way, some of my friends that know the facts all say she is crazy and just walk away as she is just after money, she keep sending messages to me told me never say love to her, itís like I never know her as before she was a sweet lovely girl just turn in to some crazy strong minded girl that wants to get want she wants, itís like the devil has got in to her I donít even know her, any more and I cannot trust her now
she told me I make her homeless and jobless but what did I do I never told her to quit her job, and I never make her to fight with her mother and I never told her to leave home, I am afraid now as I donít want to have any more contact with her, but she may make a lot of trouble for me in my new job, I will work in the best university in the Province, and she may come to the school and say bad things about me and may get me sent out of the county.
Itís very strange as when I first met her she help me get my new visa as I had a lot of things went wrong with the new school as the system has change for teachers to work in this part of china and it takes longer to get a teachers working certificate and she help me, and I may had to go to Hong Kong and she did not want me to go, as she was afraid to lose me, but when I did not need to go she was so happy with me and all the time with me she and I was very happy maybe the best I have had in my 8 years in china but just the last 3 or 4 days is like I donít know who she is and never meet her before.
I see things so clear whatís wrong with her, but she donít, she cannot work it out she needs to face her demons but she donít want to she told me the other day she want to kill herself I know thatís just get me to pity her, she has more than one face maybe something like 4 or 5 faces,
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