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 Re: Chinese Internet Dating Scams
Author: Willie 
Date:   06-29-09 21:52

In most cases, the scams is not in the girls but in the marriage agency who handle many of those Chinese woman posted on the internet (watch out the one with professional photos). The girls paid up to 30,000RMB to the agency to get a westerner to be interested to marry them. In fact, the girls might not even know what those agents write in the love letters with the hooked Westerner, or they give the false information about their past and personality. The girls for various reasons just want to get out of China, most of them is not happy or have problem with their current situation and believe life is better in the West, that could be true, but many of those woman can hardly read or speak English, that is the core of the problem.

The westerner fall in love with the photos and/or the love letters written by the professional from the marriage agency. they get paid when the westerner is lured to come to China to meet the girls. When the meeting is arranged and the real merchandise gets inspected, in most cases, people get disappointed. The odd one gets married and relocated, once the physical honeymoon excitment is over, the language problem and cultural difference will create huge problems and often ends in divoice after the woman gets the passport

My suggestion is to insist on telephone conversation to ascertain the Langauge level and take your time to ascertain other facts before you venture out for the meeting. I have heard of cases, large amount of money was extracted from the westerner after having sex with the girl. Please insist on signing pre-marrige property agreement right from the beginning, unless you want to end up living in half of what you got now and regret.

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