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 Goals in Life
Author: Jane 
Date:   11-28-06 06:39

Sharings of goals in life.

* When was it that you made up your personal goals in life? Have you acheived your goals yet? What have you been doing on your way of achieving your goals?

* What goals do you have in life?

* in terms of ambitions and goals, if someone has a few interests but no focus, how do we recognize the FOCUS that is the most suitable for us to develop?

* To achieve goals, what actions and spirits do we need to have?

Let your sharings be read! Who knows, years after, someone might tell you, it's what you write helped find their goals or even achieve their goals. :)

Any input of yours is appreciated!

Regards,
Jane

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 Re: Goals in Life
Author: SL Lee 
Date:   11-28-06 10:05

How about a very simple goal :

Leave this world a better one than the one you enter into.
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SL Lee

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 Re: Goals in Life
Author: Frank Chong 
Date:   12-02-06 02:41

Hi Jane,
Do we need a goal in life?? If nature has no purpose and we are part of nature, what is our purpose?
When we die, we all go back to nature, let's have a good journey when we can. Do no evil just in case there is an almighty when the time comes. May be it is just hedging!
It is amazing that in less that 100 years, most of people on earth today will be gone. In a few decades, our problem, however difficult it may be, will be all over!

Best regards,
Frank

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 Perspective from Lawrence Summers
Author: Frank Chong 
Date:   12-02-06 03:10


Lawrence Summers shared his thought at the last third of his speech. Summers is not alone, David Baltimore expressed similar frustration at Caltech commencement too. You can read the transcript at the following link.

Hope you like it.

regards,
Frank




http://www.president.harvard.edu/speeches/2006/0606_bacc.html

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 Re: Goals in Life
Author: Jane 
Date:   12-02-06 07:17

Thanks for sharing. I donot share your views. We are different. :)

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 Re: Goals in Life
Author: Jane 
Date:   12-02-06 07:22

It's a good one.

As China is progressing, today the Chinese in China are almost certain that when we leave the world, our country will be a better one. We have the hope and we have the determination, to achieve a better country and become a better people. Today we still have to work hard and endure a lot, in order to get here today and there tomorrow, while we are sure our next generation, our children, will have a better life.

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 Re: Goals in Life
Author: CHUNG Yoon Ngan 
Date:   12-02-06 07:47


Dear Jane

長江後浪推前浪,---Chang2 jiang hou4 lang4 tui qian lang4,
世上新人換舊人.---Shi4 shang4 xin ren2 huan4 jiu4 ren2.

The waves on Changjiang (Yangtze River) race one after another,
Generations are in succession in the same way.

But the future of the next generation is much brighter.
Congratulations to your motherland.

愚公移山,---Yu gong yi shan,
改造中國. ---Gai zao Zhongguo.

Transform China in the siprit of
The Foolish Old Man who removed the mountain.


CHUNG Yoon-Ngan

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 Re: Goals in Life
Author: CHUNG Yoon Ngan 
Date:   12-02-06 08:07


Dear Jane,

I only know how to quote Chinese proverbs.
Although I read and write English and Chinese,
I was not trained in English literature which is foreign to me.


豹死留皮,---Bao4 si3 liu2 pi2,
人死留名.---Ren2 si3 liu2 ming2.

The leopard dies but leaves its skin,
As a man leaves his reputation.

CHUNG Yoon-Ngan (鄭永元)

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 Re: Goals in Life
Author: Frank Chong 
Date:   12-09-06 10:19

Jane,
Actually I was half joking in my last post, however there is some truth in what I have said too.
Life is a strange mix of a lot of things, one need to have goals but watch out for tunnel vision. For people without a goal, they need to have goals, on the other hand, for people who are very goal driven, we need to encourage them to explore, time takeing away from focus goals to see what else is there.
There was a study comissioned by IEEE (Institute of Electrical and Electronics Engineers) to find out why women were under represented at higher level classes in electrical engineering and computer science. One of the findings was that boys more often taking up electronics, computer programming as a hobby, an interest in the machine itself, as compare to girls. These hobby/interest make them spend a lot more time in the area and many become very good in the area. There are the ones more likely to take up these professions and become very good in what they are doing.
To be really good in some thing, in most cases it is a life long pursuit, unless one is very interested and committed, life could be tough, however, if one likes it, the hobby and the job are the same. Also, a lot of new ideas and inventions started as some thing seemingly useless.
Have goals will help us to be good, but to be great, we need more than just goals. One need success and failed stories, but the over use of role models may back fire. Existing role models are at least one generation old, kids need to prepare for the life of their generation, there will be new challenges and opportunities -- many different from our generation.
These changes in mind set is needed for many Asian economies to transition from low cost manufacturing based economies to knowlwge based economies driven by innovation.

Best regards,
Frank

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 Re: Goals in Life
Author: drecl 
Date:   12-25-06 09:23

Lately,it really sets me thinking of life....live with a purpose,ambition,plans etc ,etc.....I really was at a lost when someone consulted me that he is upset with life.He worked hard..his employer thinks he should be sent to an undeveloped place to help,if he doesnt strive his best in his profession,he feels guilty , because he s kind and forgiving,his loved ones took advantage of him.I dont believe till he shows me all the evidences.Is this life?what does he want, juz a little freedom for happiness after doing his best......Has he to suffer and sacrifice after doing his best...can someone explain???? Is it true juz as Buddha said life is but sufferings.I really wonder......

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 Re: Goals in Life
Author: drecl 
Date:   12-30-06 20:49

Well,after much thoughts,living is really sufferings.I cant console my friend yet got into his shoes,thinking of the happenings around..is life worth living?What is success,what is money,what is love,what is education,travel.....I seem to agree with my friend eventhough i ve goals in life,well..well......r we all living to die?????

What happen if I ve achieved my goals??Extra happiness or not??what is happeniness.Is it tiring to love??Can someone enlighten me???

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 Re: Goals in Life
Author: Hopeful 
Date:   12-31-06 00:44

"Leave this world a better one than the one you enter into. "

Similar aspiration.
Leave this earth a better one for those who follows.

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 Re: Goals in Life
Author: Hopeful 
Date:   12-31-06 00:57

Don't hang around people like that - they mire in their miseries and bring down your mood. You have a choice to decide whether a half a glass of water is half-full or half=empty.

For some people - success means being
rich and spend their whole lives pursuing money.
happy inspite of having just enough to live.

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 Re: Goals in Life
Author: drecl 
Date:   12-31-06 02:50

Dear hopeful,


We cant run away from the fact that to live is to suffer.....How can we leave our friends unattended?Like u say, leave the world a better place for the future.....I think ur name is really good..hopeful........ inspite of all the miseries in the world.....we can pretend..right....

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 Re: Goals in Life
Author: Hopeful 
Date:   12-31-06 04:02

One can think of it as sufferings or one can think of it as challenges to overcome. We can sympathize with our friends but we should not be enablers that is enabling a gloom and doom friends to drag us down the mud either.

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 Re: Goals in Life
Author: charles koon 
Date:   01-01-07 23:24

drecl,

To start with we are all transient in this world. It does not matter whether we live till 80 or 100 or beyond. Goal or no goal, wealth or poverty, smart or stupid, look-up or look-down, blow own trumpet or being humble, we are all like a cog in a big clock! So long that we are contributing to the society, in a small or big way according to our capacity, and do not cause misery to others, which is the most important in my mind, we should be contented and accept the good, the bad and the ugly! :=)

关 红 星

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 Re: Goals in Life
Author: Hopeful 
Date:   01-02-07 01:31

I like your philosophy.

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 Re: Goals in Life
Author: drecl 
Date:   01-03-07 06:39

Yes....but what if people touch and hurt us....we are juz transient??How to be contented....can even contented???

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 Re: Goals in Life
Author: charles koon 
Date:   01-04-07 23:13

drecl,

It is too vague when you said:"... if people touch and hurt us....". But to every problem there should be a solution. It depends on how we are touched and under what circumstance. Hurt? how badly, physically, mentally or emotionally etc?

When I said that we are transient I meaned that we would not live for ever in this world.

To be contented depends on the individual expectations;different people have different standard for them to be contented. This in turn is conditioned by the up-bringing and the society in which they live.

关 红 星

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 Re: Goals in Life
Author: Ohnomy 
Date:   01-06-07 16:55

My present goal is to graduate from graduate school. My next goal is simple, to get a decent job.

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 Re: Goals in Life
Author: drecl 
Date:   02-20-07 20:03

My goal in life is to pay back what I owed from the previous life,I guess....

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 Re: Goals in Life
Author: Xie_Ming 
Date:   02-21-07 06:55

Sounds a bit like the Hindu vs. the Confucian!

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So much to lear

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 Re: Goals in Life
Author: Xie_Ming 
Date:   02-21-07 07:06

The question of how and to what end life should be lived is a primary one in philosophy.

One person has said that man is three things:

1) homo ludens (the playful creature).

2) homo faber (the artisan and maker of things).

3) homo cogitans (the thinker).

My view is that it is really all and only a game. But, to play the game, have goals and rules. Being a vegetable is to not play at all.

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So much to lear

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 Re: Goals in Life
Author: Jane 
Date:   03-19-07 06:26

These changes in mind set is needed for many Asian economies to transition from low cost manufacturing based economies to knowlwge based economies driven by innovation>>>

Hi Franky, I am interested in this subject. Care to elaborate more? anyone please?

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 Re: Goals in Life
Author: Jane 
Date:   03-19-07 06:38

There are the ones more likely to take up these professions and become very good in what they are doing.
>>>

I realize this one: that people need to have a focus and something that he/she is really good at or an expert of. Should be an specialist rather than a generalist. A generalist who is good at everything and also means who is not good at anything.

Kinda lost and not knowing the direction ahead.. at the time of reviewing the past and looking into the next stage of life, what plans have we got for the next five years and where will we be in another five years? How to zoom into all your interests and get the best out of them? Too many directions also meaning no direction...

your thoughts please..

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 Re: Goals in Life
Author: Jane 
Date:   03-19-07 06:45

Charles Koon, there is one Chinese sayings: one is happy when one is content. - zhi1 zu2 chang2 le. there is another type of person who is never content with things in life. - take your pick, which one do you go for? or which one do you think is more applicable?

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 Re: Goals in Life
Author: Jane 
Date:   03-19-07 06:51

happy inspite of having just enough to live.>>>

that's a controversial one. if one is so content with little things to live, does that mean he/she is lazy in terms of not trying harder to get better? If we have tried out all our means and exhausted our resources, and we can only be there, then might as well be content of our situation. but why not try if only 3 meals is what we get and is one really happy with only just enough to live? --- is that really true to the person? If I have 300 years of meals in store in actual fact, that is not too convincing saying I shall be happy if I had only just enough for 3 meals a day...

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 Re: Goals in Life
Author: Robert Huang 
Date:   04-13-07 17:37

You are your own master. You can control what you do that is about there is. Within your control, try to be happy, healthy and stay alive! When you can share with others, have a laugh or two. All the lofty goals do not mean a bit in the over all scheme of things. When it does sound lofty and good to make yourself feel lofty and good, that is happiness. It is a bit more safe fortunately to stay alive with this choice. On the other hand, people can be also happy doing the so called undesirable deeds. In this case, they do risk the judgement of the majority aand risk their chance to stay healthy and alive. However, there is no guarantee that the undesirable deeds cannot be the norm. As such, one must goes with the flow.

And the last, do not accept everything that other people tell you. If you do, you are not living for yourself.

Stay loose, be flexible and change your goal along the way, but most important of all, be yourself.

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 Re: Goals in Life
Author: Jane 
Date:   04-21-07 21:15

Hi! I have been travelling all over the cities. I guess one of the goals in life is you are happy with the things you are doing.... Stay healthy and acheive all your goals! And lose some weight! :-)

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 Re: Goals in Life
Author: bushi2 
Date:   05-01-07 10:43

You shouldn't waste your time here. Your goals should be to go and get married and settle down and make babies. Once you have a family you will have a clearer picture of what your goals in life is in a responsible way.

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 Re: Goals in Life
Author: steve-artist 
Date:   05-09-07 00:19

goals in life have to not just be about self but in creating something that will benefit others as well, from these goals we can can get passion.

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