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 chinese internet dating scams
Author: denny 
Date:   08-13-06 23:24

Hi everybody out there,

I am new to this site I am new to this site but am concerned because even though I've avoided being scammed on internet dating sites I am fearful that I am now being led into some sort of foreign marriage scam!

1) One month ago I was contacted by a 36 y/o divorced chinese woman w/teen. she indicated she lived in California but later said she lived in China. Her pics appear as if she just stepped out of a fashion shoot.

2) After her third E-mail she was professing her love for me saying she couldn't live without me and in All 30 E-mails she has desperately asked me to come to China marry her & that they would come back with me on the plane take to her and her teen to America/California to live happily everafter!

3) I've indicated over & over that my original intent was to meet someone locally, date for a while and then see what happens and have tried to noavail to discuss my concern regarding entering into a foreign marriage without getting to know each-other better and the Legalities of financial responsibility for bringing a wife and child into a Calif. marriage considering the potential financial devistation which could be caused by a possible future divorce! But she has avoided all those issues & simply refers back to her Love & dreams for me!

4) Now more recently her letters are very short with very little content and filled primarily with poetic prose from books although my letters are getting longer as I try to draw-out information from her such as, daily life, room-mate, family, friends, job activities, what is teen like etc. But all those requests are for the most part ignored!

5) Of course at 59 y/o I am flattered by her words and she has never asked for money in the 1-month we've written but I can't help feeling that something isn't right here and I would like to ask any of you; Is there some sort of foreign marriage scam that I should be aware of?


Any and all responses are appreciated,
Thanks-Denny
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