Author: Hopeful
Date: 02-05-06 00:37
If she does not want to see you, what is her purpose for corresponding with you - just as a pen pal? Depending on where she is from, often, if she is from a small village where everyone knows each other, then a visiting foreigner may let to a lot of gossiping and to embarassment not only for her but also her family. Inspite of the modern era, even if a Chinese girl may be 26, she can still be living with her parents. For some families, it is a taboo to date a man unless they both have intention of getting married. I know many people don't like to talk about this but sometimes it is very important that a Chinese woman be a virgin before marriage. A chinese woman sleeping around with men can be deemed as a "loose" lady that men want to have fun/sex with but would not want to have as a wife. I am not saying this is true for all Chinese women, but it is still the norm in many places, especially in small towns and villages.
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