Date: 01-01-06 21:12
If you want marry a Chinese girl, READ THIS:
1You scared she will use you to get citizenship.
The basic of marriage is trust. How can we live with a person always skeptic us? Besides, What¡¯s wrong you do something to the person you loved?
2 Is she faithful? Could I trust her?
It¡¯s depends on many factors: Is she traditional girl? Does she truly love you? etc
And your should pay ATTENTION to the following point:
1st, choice a woman you think she is faithful and trust her. If you want her respect you, you should respect her. If you want her faithful, you should faithful.
2nd, both of you need tell the truth, why you will be together? There is not perfect person in the world, there must be some reason bring you together, such as: your are bald ugly guy, she is over 30yr, no one want marry her.
3rd, No women want to live with a loser. The rule of nature is female will choose the winner. So you should, at least, have a job.
4th, here is famous old saying in China: ¡°You can be too smart in marriage.¡± It means, you can¡¯t take marriage as business. Just be smart when you choose a girl, don¡¯t be too smart when you and she are together. Consider too much thing about money and betray and so forth won¡¯t help you. It will ruin your marriage. If you want win her true heart you need to give her your heart. No one could insure you that she won¡¯t betray you. You¡¯re adult, friend. You should be strong. She is a Chinese. Usually, she won¡¯t let you down.
3 Could you prove you are better than Chinese men?
Chinese will be together--even their wife or their husband is paralysis. They will take the responsibility to their soul mate. If your wife is paralysis, can you always company with her and take care of her without complain? I know there is a girl married an American, she earn the money to support their life. Yet the guy rude to her parents when they came to America to see her¡ªThat¡¯s very terrible! Chinese precious their parents just like God. Once that girl and her husband enjoy their vacation in Hawaii, she dead in an accident. Her husband find a cheapest funeral and interment company, deal with her worse than a dead cat. He sues the travel agency, get $2 million and soon marry an American woman. How horrible! That guy must the most heartless guy and cold blood person I¡¯ve ever seen. Chinese won¡¯t take their wife like that! ¢ÙTreat her parents rudely. ¢ÚDeal with her body as throw away a powerless battery. Funeral is one of the biggest thing to Chinese! ¢ÛMarry another woman so soon. Obviously, he used his wife! Are Chinese women slavers? Are they deserved to be treating like that?
Yes, we are traditional, faithful women. What we want just a warm family, a trusty husband, love his wife deeply. Is it so hard? Love is a very simple thing. It isn¡¯t business, politics! Love needs wisdom, patient and virtue.
May my article could help you find your true love!