Author: Paul Yih (---.mia.net)
Date: 10-06-04 10:27
Jane, I think we all can be most creative to provide some kind of assistance to the many overseas Chinese or non Chinese for the same issue - To find compatible mates in China or abroad.
Yes, we are all aware of the many "less credible" entities. As China today has risen with many young entrepreneurs - It can be equally creative and inventive --- to form this kind of "checks and balances" where we can form a global team -- with the kind of professionals to aid those who are sincere in their search -- Much of that had taken place in and around the world -- But this similar mechanism can be installed in China -- Maybe even via us -- starting by a smaller group -- First and foremost, we have to shown our credentials -- with the very open and clear statement -- where we will be doing only the "checking" or "screening" mechanism. or even counseling or advising people and couples toward these set of circumstances.
We can gradually finding volunteers in which ever city -- and the background of ours will also have to be reviewd and ascertained and verified ----- and filed appropriately.
I think such mechanism can be done - and for those who can afford it - pay a fee or whatever amount they can afford to do -- and gradually, we can build this into a solid "platfom" a professional "platform" as we grow.
I myself has been trained as a psychologists and also I focus on the many cross-cultural issues when and where I do handle some four dialects and four extra languages and with my access in latin America, US and China where we can ask the many good organizations - be that churches, social and cultural groups who care to "facilitate" and who care to put forth a bit of the screening effort - Such is that - from authenticating the said individual , their background, make sure they have no criminal records -- Sure, much of that can be a bit sensitive - But if we can form this "neutral" zone to do the arbitration -- meaning, while the two parties want to continue to engage with their communications - US , this volunteer groups can do the screening -- but we have to do so legally as in these confidential matters, where "we" cannot be blackmailed or bribed by any parties -- Our process of verification, authentication have to be done very articulately -- to give the "parties" of their greater "assurance" as to make certain that their relationship, their statement about who they are and what they are have to be "authenticated" meaning, they have to also be able to review whatever background --- I guess with some minor legal assistance whereby we will also have to abide by a very strict code of conducts -- in the protection of such confidentiality of all parties - where and when we make progress - our "reputation" will grow, by our work, by merit and not just by hearsay.
In this case from the beginning of the thread --- This gentlement can use our service -- service where we can have it set up "legally" in all cities and all countries---- and to be abided by the local law.
This eventually can be a "revenue" making mechanism for many non-profit groups, churches, humanistic organizations -- But again, let me remind you of all the bylaws and the proper ethical and legal and moral conducts of all .
This is just a thought in this day and age of our computer driven days of e-enterprises that can be done intelligently, articulately , humanly and also "legally".