Author: Paul Yih (---.mad.wi.charter.com)
Date: 11-28-04 09:15
Instead of quitting -- request a meeting face to face with the boss -- If you quit and without sound reasoning - you are leaving room for the same predators to prey on the next female teacher ---- Unless we now only sent those good size Amazon women -- or any big women so they dare not to abuse -- These kind of behavior should not be tolerated anywhere .
Sexuality is not a sin it is all about consent -- I have taught that when I was teaching a master degree class for all counselors - I am not here to be a moralist - I have told my counselor staff f- If you have sex with a student or an affair with a student, even if you are married --- that is not a crime -- but maybe a dishonor against your own spouse -- But to have affair with a "counselee" , who maybe vulnerable -- yes, any psychologist, psychiatrist or good professional counselor will attest that -- many of could have a "physical" relationship with any of our counselees--- But remember, these students or counselees are in a total "different " psychological situation than us ---- and it is absolutey wrong to have a sexual relationship with people you are working toward resolving problems - But trust me, in todays world -- all things can happen -- But ones moral code has to be hold up in good ethnical places.
I hope all those of you who claim to be professionals -- be a professional , do not let any bright eye students to be fallen into become a teahcer pet --- in psychology we call this "transference" where many younger students are attracted to the confidence of a teacher, a counselor or a psychologist ------ Because they are vulnerable .
Do me a favor, Cindy, give a full report to your boss -- they also have to know that where they themselves may have encounter more liberal situation when they were in the US --- As a matter of fact, yes, many women recently or during my time in college had tried to "score" with Asians or any foriegn students -- as in sampling exotic dishes :) and later both got ditched .
One has toknow when we are a sexual predator or prey --- like I have said - got sexual desires ? pay for it -- it is much cleaner -- if you have contracted sexual illness -- that is you own demise :)