Author: Norma Lie (---.dsl.telesp.net.br)
Date: 11-21-04 13:07
Iīm afraid I have to disagree with you when you say "I think it is better not to mention it at all but to avoid similar situations in future". As a woman you canīt avoid these situations: what I mean is that you never know how a human being reacts! Cindy thought it very innocent to be invited by those 2 jerks and wouldnīt even imagine that would happen! Chinese men are too proud to be humiliated?? Then they should think before they act!!! Cindy, itīs the first time but it wonīt be the last time this will happen in your life, but now you know that you should be prepared!! You donīt want to hurt their feelings but if they insist they should be humiliated!! That dirty old man probably heard from the jerks what happened the other night and he was trying to get his part!!
Theyīre just dirty men!! Not only Chinese are like this, men are men!!Youīll find them anywhere, but just be businesslike when you talk to men before you really get to know them!!
Chinese are not used to being hugged, which is true. It makes them feel embarrassed.